Do not poke your nose in wife's affairs as it would invite her anger. It is better to mind your own business. Interference as little as possible otherwise it could create dependency. You seem to know exactly what people need and want from you-but try not to be too lavish in your spending today. Time spent with family- children and friends will be vital to regenerate your energy. Your rough attitude towards the person you love a lot can bring in the disharmony between the relationship. Health of your spouse may keep you worried. Listen to the advice given by others-if you really want to be benefited today.